Who you get paired with depends on who's waiting for a match when you create a challenge. Considering that you get almost instantly matched with someone, I don't think there can be much manipulation of who you get paired with.
Sick of this site
Two things I hate about this site - 1 they always try to switch your membership to autorenew and make it very difficult to change this. 2. their tech people are so stupid they can't even fix their 'remove friends' option for more than a year now. They are all about the money
Exactly, I can't even delete some of my friends, it's so ridiculous.

Then why not get a chess program for your computer? It's not going to cheat you. And post #16 is spot on when it comes to offensive chats. Or get a chess computer? What good is complaining about the site and using terms that will get the thread locked doing you? What will that accomplish?
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What are you trying to imply with this post? You know the average human would be rated around 200 on chess.com?
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What are you trying to imply with this post? You know the average human would be rated around 200 on chess.com?
For a person like you with that status, you are not capable enough to understand. And please check facts.
I wouldn't be surprised where the source of average rating of 200 you got from, probably some guy that has a similar rating like you.
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What are you trying to imply with this post? You know the average human would be rated around 200 on chess.com?
For a person like you with that status, you are not capable enough to understand. And please check facts.
I wouldn't be surprised where the source of average rating of 200 you got from, probably some guy that has a similar rating like you.
Listen to my post, what you're referring to is different. I was talking about the average human, not the average chess.com player. I can beat my parents, my friends, everyone in my social life.
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What has my ELO got to do with my mother being insulted? There are a lot of ELO snobs on here. The thing with a snob is they reek of self importance.
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What are you trying to imply with this post? You know the average human would be rated around 200 on chess.com?
For a person like you with that status, you are not capable enough to understand. And please check facts.
I wouldn't be surprised where the source of average rating of 200 you got from, probably some guy that has a similar rating like you.
Listen to my post, what you're referring to is different. I was talking about the average human, not the average chess.com player. I can beat my parents, my friends, everyone in my social life.
They didn't understand it, yet, a person with low ELO like me, did, I knew what you was saying. The thing with low ELO, you don't have you head in the clouds and no chance of being a snob. I like how many people or bots on here associate high elo with IQ. Like if you have a high ELO you have a high IQ and can understand things better than those with low IQ. This is what the poster said, effectively. ELO snobbery is a disease of the mind, I challenge anyone to prove me wrong.
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What has my ELO got to do with my mother being insulted? There are a lot of ELO snobs on here. The thing with a snob is they reek of self importance.
Its really no surprising 1000s always complain about. And whats with the analogy of elo snobs?
Its no surprise the OP is just around 1000 rated rapid
What has my ELO got to do with my mother being insulted? There are a lot of ELO snobs on here. The thing with a snob is they reek of self importance.
Its really no surprising 1000s always complain about. And whats with the analogy of elo snobs?
You're a 2000, you wouldn't understand.

I beat someone and they called my mother a [removed -- MS], I reported them, but nothing happened chess.com doesn't give a damn. I hate this site, especially the people who play on it, they are just vile, vile people. I have always liked chess, played it from 8 years old, thats, 50 years ago, but I now hate the game, so,e of the people who play it are disgusting vile people. I am closing my account on Sunday, had enough.
Another thing, I play on lichess, I never lose more than 5 games in a row, on here this keeps happening, losing sometimes 15 games in a row. A clear sign it's about to happen, I get two players in a row, send me blank chats at the beginning of the game. That is the start of my so called tilt. This has happened 4 times now. In my opinion we are playing bots. That explains the tilt, because on lichess, this does not happen. Chess.com want you to keep playing and chess.com is a business, it's all about $$$. That's why they have the leagues, pointless leagues that achieve nothing other than you playing all day long. Actually the more I think about chess the more pointless it is, has a hobby it's totally pointless.
Anyway a tip for you, there is a site that gives you a game review similar to chess.com, you just have to put your PGN in and you get the game review, pretty cool.
If they do not respond, just email @chess.com">support@chess.com. I know chess.com can be like this, So just play in lichess.
The only reason I haven't switched to Lichess already is because I don't like the UI and Lichess doesn't have a variant editor.