Slow Players are So Frustrating!


In daily its even worse when your opponent consistently waits 3 days per move even in obvious recaptures

It depends.
If he lets time pass because he is losing and doesn't want to take checkmate or resign, he is wrong.
Other than that, he is free to take as long as he wants on a move. Your opponent doesn't have to adapt to your timing. If you choose to play a 30 minute game you have to take that into account. In this case, it would be rude to ask him to hurry up because you want him to.