Talking crap

Can someone tell me why is it that when people either lose to you or simply win on time but it was a very even game or when they win they have to act like you are a disgrace to chess and have to resort to vulgar and obscene and often lewd forms of trash talk. Saying things that refer to a mans genitals or something disgusting in a sexual sense? Why cant you just play the game and talk crap without having to call someone gay or make homosexual references? All on my page all my notes are of people talking about homosexual acts and men's genitals. It doesn't make any sense to me at all.

i think they try 2 be cool by saying all that stuff

 I guess man its really irritating. I mean if you lose a game the last thing you need to be worried about is talking crap. You need to worry about getting better.

U MAD BRO?????

nowadays people think its cool to swear

There needs to be a <report abuse: talking crap> button.

good job for not getting incensed by the harrassment

Have you blocked those guys?

 Of course especially when i just played an excellent game to win then they come with all that crap. Man just say thank you for the game or gg or say something positive at least. I mean i get mad at losing just like the next player but i dont resort to that

 i completely agree. especially people who dont take chess seriously and dont want to get better they need to pick something else to do. Like people who only have a king left and you have like 3 queens and a rook and a king but they might win on time...seriously man you should never express excitement at the end of a game like that because you just lost so please either get better or switch games

Individuals of low character who possess no discipline or self respect.

 Thanks man and they always leave before i can even say anything to and thats the most irritating

 Is there a way you can make it so you never get matched up to play certain people again? cuz there are definitely a few people that i would love never to play again

I'm not sure that you can stop them from accepting your open seeks in Live Chess but you can stop them from sending you messages and posting in your notes.

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 You know what it doesnt even matter because when i get above 2000 in Bullet and Blitz those comments are going to look so funny on my page along with the people who are going to still be at their same rating levels. And plus its going to be a waste of my time to go through all that. Just next time they play me they better be ready.

I could never understand it myself, we are all playing to win, sure when i lose i get mad as well but i get mad at myself not my opponent, After all it is his job to beat me and it is my job to beat him if he wins that just means he did his job better then me. I expect my opponents to do the best to win our game and if i lose that just means i have more work to do to improve. I am certainly not going to curse my opponent if i lose people that resort to that need to grow up.

 Well said!

 Yes sir i think at the end of any note on your page it gives you an option to delete and reply just click delete and it should go away