The chess and I...
Quit your job (or find one that's less time-consuming) and leave your wife (or find one that's less time-consuming)
Lately, my life have transformed completely...
Now I have no time to play chess and no time to even think about chess... and I simply lose to each and every opponent I (casually) play against...
So, right now I'm like: I hate chess... I love chess... I hate chess... I love chess...
Chess is time consuming... chess is beautiful!!! ... chess is a complete nonsense... chess is an art!!! ... chess is meaningless... but chess is a parallel universe for love's sake!!!
Any advice on how to stick to the cause?!
I feel the same way about cheesecake
I should have known better than to ..... ?
please don't say fall in love? 
I have no idea what a cheescake is, but I think I can safely assume it's a high calorie food
because that's how I feel about these things, although mostly I don't really care that much!
So I'll get back on terms with chess, once my life is ruined again? 
As for the best cheescake, keep looking! you'll find your dream cheescake and that will mess up your game ;)
The idea is: I can't really force myself into anything! and that's the problem, dude!!!
Thanks a lot Ladies and Gents for participating :)