As someone who is currently playing a game with you, I'd suggest actually playing defensively opposed to gunning me down with your pawns! :P
I probably am not the best for giving advice, but I'd just suggest worrying about controlling the center of the board instead of the opponents king if you want to be defensive. A good defensive move as well would be castling, if you want to play a slow game, get that done first before you even begin to make checks with your queen. The "dead man style" should involve playing dead for many, many turns. That's all I can really say though, you definetly know how to control your pieces in a strong fashion, so you will no doubt end up being a strong opponent when the aggression can be controled ^w^
Hi, I like to play defencive chess very much but was always playing balanced chess and started only lately to play very defencivley like a dead man on the board ,does any body know useful tips for that style