What's your point again?
They’re really making me not wanna play online anymore🙇♂️
We have lives, Dude. Nobody has any interest in sitting there grinding away at a losing position. For what?

If they're up +5 or more and I have nothing but pawns against a couple rooks, what, then, is the point? I'm toast and I'll take the loss and move on.

Resigning is not quitting lol. Resigning in a deperate situation is actually respecting your opponent.
I agree with OP on people who abandon games, but disagree on OP's view of people who resign,
Now, I am not against trying to defend an inferior position. In fact there are quite a few games where I had a much better position but couldnt convert due to excellent defense from opponent's part and inaccurate play from mine. The vice versa is also true. But however playing when you are down a queen or a rook against a decent player makes no sense is simply a waste of time
Cheers.