tworthington wrote:
Resigning is a personal choice, there is no right or wrong. If your opponent wants you to resign because they are in a hurry to move on let them resign. If your opponent thinks your situation is hopeless and you are wasting their time, they should checkmate you. If they are unable to checkmate you maybe they are not all that good.
Well said.
I sometimes play on when it's fairly hopeless, and sometimes I resign very early -- like move 10 if I've bungled the opening and dropped a piece. It depends entirely on the particular circumstances. With friends who like to chat, I play on because I'm enjoying the conversation. When I have too many games going, it does not make sense to spend a lot of time trying to scrape a draw out of a bungled position when I can concentrate on other games.
Part of the secret to living with other humans is developing the ability to accept behavior that does not mirror identically what you would do in that situation.
I would prefer not to play with someone who will flip out if I either resign early or fail to resign in a lost position. I don't know what I might end up doing, so I'd prefer to play with people who have some flexibility. It's nice when my oppoent can be open minded about my good faith; whatever I'm doing, it won't be to irritate him or her.
Resigning is a personal choice, there is no right or wrong. If your opponent wants you to resign because they are in a hurry to move on let them resign. If your opponent thinks your situation is hopeless and you are wasting their time, they should checkmate you. If they are unable to checkmate you maybe they are not all that good.