Listen to tidi she makes a lot of sense, at the end of the day, people are just people, doesn't matter what race, creed or colour you are, we are all the same
Wanting to give up..

I was playing a bullet game a long time ago. He was quite high rated than I was, and towards the end, he had more pieces and I had more time. He was in the risk of losing the game on time and hence losing points.. therefore, he sent me a message in the chat, telling, "Just quit already, loser!" But honestly, I did not see this message till the game was over. He lost, and became all angry and turned mad at me.
He then started telling how I played like a loser, etc, at which point I admitted, and excused myself for a break.

I won another game...guess I am not gonna lose all of them...which is nice.
Dude, now you're just fishing for love.

it wasnt so long ago that you was creating threads complaining about ccers insulting you , i guess i should be glad youve toughened up but i aint , you give up part of your humanity a noble part when you choose to reject empathy , but i understand why you want astrolux to toughen up pashak , i just think that its not the right place or time but who am i to judge ?
You are confusing me with somebody else. I have created threads trolling people and threads asking mods to ban all the nonsense in the off topic forum. But I have never created a thread complaining that somebody insulted me. I could not care less if someone insults me here.
Please dont quit because youve encountered rude folks. I am a woman and I get approached in nasty ways every day here on chess.com. Also I am from Israel so I get remarks such as death to my country etc. I t annoys me but I simply tell folks this is chess site no politics please. and if they persist I simply disable chat and in extreme incidents I block them. Same goes for any other comments that I personally find offensive. I think most folks here in this site are friendly and just want to have fun playing chess. A to your level of chess. As someone suggested try playing longer games. if you want to be in tournement but havent got the hour an half to play a full one. just play one or two games and then resign your games the next rounds. I try to do the daily puzzle every day as well as read one article if possible.