"Was Your Opponent A Good Sport?"

nice

Focus mode. Yes i'm using it as well

It is a well thought option. I always feel surprised when i see how well i played against a high rated opponent without knowing it.

But it also blocks communication as well. As the name suggest.. it helps you focusing

Who cares hi's and bye's anyways

@BlunderousWilliam someone who is rated 700 or 400 can give good advice on chess sportsmanship? That's cool but I don't think so. 

a guy i just played against beavis49 just left bc he was losing but didnt resign he stalled the game and won [User ID Removed_GC]

naming and shaming is not allowed

use report feature

 I think it's a pretty good way to filter out the diiicks from the non-dicks. 

bro dont swear theres kids on this

You don't need a high chess rating to speculate on how a website works. At least you had the stones to say it to my face, though.

And also ... we're on a forum. It's as important to have good composition as it is to be able to answer a question. It's a point of pride with me that I don't descend into the English major version of a chesshole, i.e. calling people out for their remedial-level writing skills. But that's the situation you're in. Actually, most people here are in that situation. It's even worse on the other major site. If English is not your first language, then never mind. I only speak the one. But if this is your first language, what business do you have trying to communicate on the internet? Aside from having complete and justifiable freedom to do so, as I do to play chess or to comment on a web site. My web design skills don't extend beyond HTML and CSS, so if you're looking for a way to feel superior to someone, try that. Coming to a conclusion that off-base, though, *and* wording it poorly? According to chesshole logic, that should mean you can't even feed yourself or tie your shoes.

i did report him why shouldnt i name him though?

Because its kind of bad out

in my opinion... the chess community are mostly nasty people. i dont get it. n

i always send friend requests to people who say good luck good game and accept my rematch

It's always been toxic. Every once in a while I get a bug up my butt to be social in the chess community, and in the end come back to that conclusion. Safe mode is the way, and the way is safe mode.

chatting during a game, esp the shorter games is kinda rude...not earth shattering tho. its the people who get nasty at the end that i dont like. name-calling, cheating accusations. just vicious behavior. and, imo...a poor winner is worse than a sore loser.

True,
Like only 20 to 30 percent of the people play nicely

But,
Mostly I ignore it and I didn't even know that chess.com puts such kind of message after seeing the forums I realized this

Because it is by design a personally confrontational game, and human nature is to see one's self as better at something than they are. Insecure people can't handle being bad/mediocre at things when they are trying to be good at them so they lash out in various ways. 

You get the same thing in a lot of fields/activities. It isn't so much the true experts that get nasty as much as the ones that aren't quite there and are insecure about investing tons of time into something yet still not getting to anywhere near the top.