(p. 2)
Experienced chess players know when to ask: "What does my
opponent threaten?" Having identified the threats, they then
determine if they are serious and must be defended against, or
whether they can engage in more active operations.
Palatnik, Sam, and Lev Alburt. 2013. Chess Tactics for the Tournament Player. New York, NY: Chess Information & Research Center.

You don't ask yourself anything, you just look for a better one, unless you aren't good, then you ask yourself: will I blunder?