While you don't want to obsess over openings, it does matter which opening you choose.
If you choose a very sharp opening, with a lot of forcing lines, like the King's Gambit, you'd better be prepared - you can lose to inferior players who have seen the line pretty easily, otherwise.
Again, I'd recommend something solid and hard to bust, like the London. YOu won't win any games out of the opening with it, and it's not as aggressive an attacking opening, but you also won't get wiped out in the opening, and more often than not will reach a very playable if not better middlegame.

No offense to the people who have offered you suggestions of opening (as those openings make sense in a way) but I don't think that is the best approach. It is not a question of 'this' or 'that' opening, but how you approach the openings in general that matters.