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Why do some players immediately resign the moment they lose the momentum? Is it ego? Pride? Shame?

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Optimissed
lfPatriotGames wrote:

 

Find a local club, play some over the board chess. Find some like minded people. I think you might find the "chess community" isn't as bad as  you imagine. 

 

Would you say that most chess players are introverts?

Pegusu

Most chess players introverts? OH YEAH.

Optimissed

I was just asking for opinions. I think probably yes but others will have different experiences. happy.png

manwe-sandS

Man, Chess players are offended by anything. Personally, I'll resign when I reckon it's very unlikely that I'll win. Then I choose to spend my time playing a new game. Sometimes I like to see how it ends and play until mate. Apparently you are the party pooper in both conditions.

lfPatriotGames
Optimissed wrote:
lfPatriotGames wrote:

 

Find a local club, play some over the board chess. Find some like minded people. I think you might find the "chess community" isn't as bad as  you imagine. 

 

Would you say that most chess players are introverts?

I don't think I'm qualified to answer that. In my opinion, I think most chess players are pretty representative of the general population. All kinds of different people. 

I play chess regularly with only about a half dozen people, I don't go to a chess club or play in tournaments. Of the people I play chess with, none are really introverts. 

Optimissed
lfPatriotGames wrote:
Optimissed wrote:
lfPatriotGames wrote:

 

Find a local club, play some over the board chess. Find some like minded people. I think you might find the "chess community" isn't as bad as  you imagine. 

 

Would you say that most chess players are introverts?

I don't think I'm qualified to answer that. In my opinion, I think most chess players are pretty representative of the general population. All kinds of different people. 

I play chess regularly with only about a half dozen people, I don't go to a chess club or play in tournaments. Of the people I play chess with, none are really introverts. 

Maybe if you haven't played chess at congresses. Thanks for responding though. There is a similarity between club and congress players, in my mind. A lot of chess players seemed to me very down to earth and on the quiet and maybe self-assured side. But even so, it seemed there were always those who would take offence easily. One had to be careful, as a team captain, in dealing with others. I mean, with those on opposing teams. And as someone who ran a big chess club's competitions for a few years, I thought there were always those who were impossible to please or who thought their ideas of how a competition should be run were far better and should take therefore precedence. I mean grown adults, instead of just accepting the fact that the proper place for dissent is at the next AGM or in a special meeting to discuss it before the club's officers are elected. I mean, one would have liked to tell the few idjits what one thought of them but they'd just make a noise and then desert to another club. And they wondered, at a later date, when we were short of a team captain, why me and another person, who had both been first team captains .... first me and then him when I temporarily left the club .... refused point blank ever to be a team captain again! 15 years ... quite enough.

It's sort of on topic ... misplaced ego.

LeoLOL87

I rather get those players than players who have given up and stall just to be unpleasant (also known as: the word starts with and A and ends with hole) (meaning: they have no intention to keep playing the game) and hope that you abandon just out of boredom from lack of activity from his end.