surely if a match is "perfect" white may try to dictate the opening strategy but black has an equal chance to make it a black strategy. If perfect play both have equal chances of winning and it must therefore culminate in a draw. It is only the imperfection that allows a win.
If I play a GM with a book opening I know by heart and so achieve to reach say move 12 with a balanced board. What is inevitable? I make a mistake or the GM sees an opening and so ultimately wins. If I play a perfect game then being perfect I cannot lose. If this is true for white it is also true for black. But if both play perfectly then neither can win so it must be a draw.
I never flip flopped. There are many plausible time-frames for when chess can be solved based on current knowledge. But they don't agree with your assertion that "chess can never be solved". I'll show you again a Venn diagram why 18 years is plausible, because it is within the known range of when chess might be solved: