Troy prefers to paint by dumping the paint on the floor and mopping the floor with your head.
Yeah, he asks more questions than he makes statements. Which is fine so long as I find the colors on the floor interesting
When one finds an answer for themselves it’s quite different than if they get it from another, even when they agree with the answer 100%.
Yeah, for sure. That's why I don't mind so much.
Not fighting others is not enough.
Not fighting yourself is the key to not fighting others. That is a good place to begin. And what are we fighting others for anyway? A few ideas we get ourselves attached to?
"what are we fighting others for anyway"
I guess generally people want others to agree with them / the world to change for them.
So, you know, a person will decide everyone else is wrong, or that the world is crazy (not themselves), or simplify issues to involve only the right side and the wrong side.
So yeah, it makes sense to focus on yourself, if only for practical reasons. Although sometimes the world is legitimately screwed up. Probably part of being realistic means to accept some level of suffering.
Is there a separation between ‘the rest of the world’ and oneself? On the surface we are different: different likes, dislikes, passions, opinions.
But if one gets deeper into oneself there are no differences at all. Which means what?
Now that's interesting. Hmm.
I guess you mean to change the world you start with yourself... but still, the fact I am, or may be, thinking of myself as separate from the world. That would certainly be part of the problem and something I would fix by fixing myself. That's very interesting.
Wanting to change the world is the wrong place to start. Why do I want to change the world? So I can feel good about myself: I’m an important person, I saved the world, me, me, me. Which is the very pattern that needs change.
I don’t want to change the world. I don’t even wantt to change myself. I just want to understand. That would be the right place to start.
I think it's even more instinctual / selfish. I want to change the world so the world exists the way I want it to. So that I have no conflicts with it.
Even if it's someone wants to, let's say, feed the starving children. Where does that come from? The person doesn't like living in a world with starving children. Sure it helps others, but it starts with the self. That's partly why I wasn't so interested in that conclusion, so I'm glad you were going that direction with it.
Here, you are both committing a basic logical fallacy known as begging the question. You (plural) claim that every human action is selfish, because humans always act based solely upon what they want. The problem is that the premise (people always act based solely on what they want) effectively assumes the conclusion (everything people do is selfish), so no one who disagrees with your conclusion is going to accept your premise without further justification.
Btw, this conversation is so long, so fast-moving, and so off-topic that I really think it needs to be moved to a separate location. You guys are completely burying all of the on-topic posts under a sea of unrelated material, and I don't really think that is fair to those who want to discuss the prospect of computers eventually solving chess.
Yeah, but I have strong justification for it: your brain is isolated, and the function of DNA is to preserve itself. So you do what you do because of... you, and for yourself.
Now, we can get all metaphysical and oh what about morality and God and such. Ok, that's fine, but I'm saying it's a perfectly reasonable axiom to take on: that humans act selfishly.
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In any case, this topic has been off topic for 100s of pages.
Non-stop "is chess a draw" BS has nothing to do with solving chess.
Especially when it goes on repeat FOR F*****G MONTHS NOW. I mean really.
Ponz: Morphy drew one day, in his sketchbook, with colored pencil. QED chess is a draw.
Someone else: That's dumb. Stop it.
[6 months later]
Ponz: 1.e4 e5 is a perfect game, and is a draw on move 2. QED chess is a draw.
Someone else: That's dumb. Stop it.