Lose.
would you rather win or lose but learn a lot ?
I try to view every loss as a learning opportunity
Unfortunately I seem to learn the same lessons over and over. Usually - slow down
I would rather win. You can learn from wins. Maybe not as much as from losses but you can learn something. Also you don't have to lose to learn. You can do puzzles, study the chess games of others etc.
I'd rather lose, but learn from it.
The toughest fighters tend to be the ones with the most battle scars.

which one would you pick i wouldpick to lose but learn a lot