Different points for wins and losses? Checkmate recorded as loss?


The rating system isn't static. How many points are awarded or taken away depends on a rather complex formula devised by one Professor Glicko. Let me run and get the article for you...
Here you go
https://support.chess.com/article/210-how-do-ratings-work-on-chess-com

Your second question? Just because your computer shows a move as having been made unfortunately doesn't mean it made it to the servers in time. You aren't on iOS, are you? The last two versions have had some major problems. Otherwise you probably just had a temporary disconnect...Why yes, I am going to run off and get you the article,,,
https://support.chess.com/article/213-how-do-i-fix-my-disconnect-lag-issues