You can challenge him for a game and then you can use the chat to communicate.
How can I become unmuted?

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Live Chess Mutes are temporary and usually expire after thirty minutes. You should be back to normal now! Please note, however, that the server does not allow profanity and posting it will result in a warning, mute, or kick.
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I've been muted for weeks its not working
Some people receive long chat mutes if they ignore multiple shorter mutings.
How long has this one gone on?

I've been muted for weeks its not working
You're posting here so you're not muted. You're also not muted in Live as far as I can tell and haven't been for a few weeks.

me too i got muted
Your not muted now and only while chess.com was waiting on your email confirmation. If you feel like you are muted contact https://support.chess.com with your user name. Good Luck

yes i am in one of the clubs queen gambit fan club
Oh that is controlled by the club admin team. It doesn't affect your site status. You can contact a club admin to have the mute lifted depending on the reason you were muted in just that club.

I'm not sure how to introduce myself, I'm sort of new to Chess.com and to be honest, I really do enjoy it.
But I have a few bad gaming habits from other online games, i.e. I have a instinctive habit to swear whenever I create a huge mistake.
So as a result I was muted, I know its my fault and I do understand the punishment but I just made a friend just before I became muted. Neglecting him because I wasn't able to speak and I feel really bad about it because only he was the one able to exchange manners while I was muted.
I'd only like to know if I'm able to become unmuted so that I can apologise for not being able to respond, I promise I'll break this habit but I don't like to carry burdens like this and I'd like to thank him for the games.
Any response that would be helpful please repost.
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OP
"But I have a few bad gaming habits from other online games, i.e. I have a instinctive habit to swear whenever I create a huge mistake."
That's not instinct. That's stupid.

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I'm not sure how to introduce myself, I'm sort of new to Chess.com and to be honest, I really do enjoy it.
But I have a few bad gaming habits from other online games, i.e. I have a instinctive habit to swear whenever I create a huge mistake.
So as a result I was muted, I know its my fault and I do understand the punishment but I just made a friend just before I became muted. Neglecting him because I wasn't able to speak and I feel really bad about it because only he was the one able to exchange manners while I was muted.
I'd only like to know if I'm able to become unmuted so that I can apologise for not being able to respond, I promise I'll break this habit but I don't like to carry burdens like this and I'd like to thank him for the games.
Any response that would be helpful please repost.