I experience sudden network outages on my end, even though my connection appears to be stable, particularly while playing games. These disruptions often result in abandoning the game or losing due to network connectivity errors. This ongoing issue significantly contributes to my frustration, as it frequently leads to losing most of the games.
Your opponents can't impact your connection; the clients don't connect to each other so they can't get your connection details.
The following articles have some suggestions to minimize connection issues.
https://support.chess.com/article/4720-online-chess-performance-optimizations
https://support.chess.com/article/213-how-do-i-fix-my-disconnect-lag-issues
I experience sudden network outages on my end, even though my connection appears to be stable, particularly while playing games. These disruptions often result in abandoning the game or losing due to network connectivity errors. This ongoing issue significantly contributes to my frustration, as it frequently leads to losing most of the games.