I posted this on your comment on another topic, but figured you would find it here more easily.
Chess.com does not approve individual ads. You can always report objectionable ads but I think you might need to report where it links to (copy the URL, no reason to visit).https://support.chess.com/customer/portal/emails/new
Can't say they will agree that particular ad is bad but that is how you handle it.
who in the world wants to watch two men kissing after a game of chess??? what's wrong with you people??? If these twisted ads continue, I'm ininstalling.