I played a rated game with someone rated about 100 points more than me and lost 81 points. How does that happen?
Because you had only played one rated blitz games in the last four years. There is a component of ratings that looks at how often you have played and it judges whether your rating is accurate or not.

If your ratings fall into the area where they are considered as possibly inaccurate, ratings adjustments can be large until the uncertainty falls. I see that you won a game in June. Your blitz rating rose by 84 points after that game.
I played a rated game with someone rated about 100 points more than me and lost 81 points. How does that happen?