I understand that this is a family site and that bad language has to be controlled somehow. But what excuse is there besides laziness or indifference for not making an optional filter for users who want to speak (and be spoken to) naturally with an acquaintance (or stranger)? Do the site's owners object to customizability and free communication between consenting individuals? Or is it just easier not to care?
The most discouraging comment in this whole discussion (and which sheds light on the preceding paragraph) is Erik's conclusion: "It's my site, so I make the rules." Erik, that's the same kind of short-sighted solipsism that ruins so many other sites: a founder who refuses to soften his grip on the project and ends up only pleasing himself. For the good of the site, try to think of us (Chess.com users) as members of a community and not just grateful visitors to "your site."
Again...when you joined this site there were rules you agreed to. If you dont like those rules then you have the ability to leave and go somewhere else. What i absolutely dont understand is why so many "must" cuss when typinig. I can understand blurting something out due to anger, stress, or hitting your thumb with a hammer. But taking the time to type out a cuss word when there are so many other words that work just as well is inexcusable.
I've been accused of swearing like a sailor. I'm with CPawn on this one. There is something grating about seeing cuss words written on a computer screen. It is wholly different from the spoken word.
Thank You BP! I think we can safely say that we are pretty much all guilty to some extent of throwing out the F bomb, or some other word. But to take the time and actually type it? And at the very least i do sensor myself when children or women are around. At a bar with friends then thats a different story. But to take the time ti type in a curse word, and then complain that you cant curse? You agreed to the sites terms, abide by them or leave.

What's nice is that I don't consider myself up-to-date on the comings and goings of the censorship policies.
But now that you mention it, I think live chess 2 chat has been much better than live chess 1 chat. Bravo, Erik!