this fair play policy is quite flawed if you ask me. if the opponent doesn't play the starting move for 10 seconds in bullet/blitz i abort and the fair play policy message comes up. Even if you played a guy continuously a few times and wanna play some one else but this guy keeps accepting your challenge and you abort Boom! Fair play policy!
Make your policies fair first
What do I do when my game ends? What button do I select so I dont get in trouble for Fair Play?