Winning is the best part of playing a sport. When you lose, you just shake it off and move on to the next one. If you are playing within the rules, and win, what is the problem?
Winning is not the best part of playing a sport. Playing in a sport is in itself the best part. Why bother otherwise? Some value winning more than others, but we all do it for the joy of the game itself. It is possible to ruining the spirit game while playing within the rules. Like moving erratically while a dozen behinds in points is just not playing chess any longer. That is what is being debated. You may disagree, but it would be nice to learn what reasons you have. In my view you should play chess. With the clock running this may include unexpected moves and so on. Once clearly lost it shows true sportsmanship to resign.
Agreeing to play a game with certain time controls, and then moaning when you fail to win within those time controls is the very definition of poor sportsmanship.
I think it's stupid to win a game of chess b/c you're seconds faster. It's a game of strategy and thought, it's one thing to take more time than is reasonable but seconds more or less to determine a game regardless of who's actually ahead? Crazy! Not chess, a mess.
Maybe if the "loser" took as much time as the "winner" they wouldn't be in a losing position.
You can't disregard the clock and moan when it costs you.