....The only reason though that I can see for you having a complaint is if you kept clobbering these guys over and over and getting bored with the (lack of) competition. But you seem to suggest you're scoring about 50-50. You also say you're not learning enough from this...but I think there's plenty to be learned in how to handle early queen moves! After all, all those orthodox classical openings came about because stuff like the Scholar's Mate fails against astute defense--but players first had to come up with those defenses. We've all had to do so in our development as players, and it becomes a valuable part of your arsenal--both for its own sake, as well as teaching you how to benefit in general from the early queen sallies of your opponent in the future.
Good point. I'm finding that I have to find forks and pins very quickly. Facing a queen out in the field somehow ends up turning into great opportunities for me.
I'm 50-50 overall, but my most recent games I've been winning more like 80% of the time.
I actually recently started teaching kids chess in an afterschool program, so I'm very eager to learn and fill in gaps in my playing. These "bad" games might make a good portfolio to share with the kids. They love bringing out the queen and rook right away.

Not sure if it's been said already but...
Making moves that startle the other person is a good thing in the blitz games. Especially if time is running down for someone. A piece sack or something really unexpected makes someone think and thinking is not always a good thing in blitz games. That's what I would do when I played the Blitz live chess. ALmost always I would win on time because of making unexpected random moves.
It's not a good way to learn chess but it works.
Yes, I've been noticing that when their queen+bishop attack is thwarted, they struggle with the next moves. And when I trade 3 point pieces to open up the board and force doubled pawns, these guys are sometimes just grasping at straws.