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ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#61

You can make comparisons, but they are just mere comparisons that pale to marriage

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#62
Wazir20 wrote:

ya chess can be played over and over but with no same moves always... right so in marriage also u can enjoy different moves with same partner... not a big deal... if a person is smart and romantic, he/she can plays well wtever it is a game or it is a role in life or it is a relation...

But that’s not my argument. 
You are saying you can make different “moves” in the same marriage. 

But chess is a game that you can restart and play again. 
But that’s not marriage because it is (should be) a one time commitment

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#63
ChessSensasian wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

@ChessSensasian u said their marriages fall apart bcoz of it... so just bcoz chess and marriage have some comman issues, doesn't mean marriage will not work if we apply some chess rule in it... may be marriage will be more lovely if we apply the art of chess in it :D

What do you mean apply chess rule?

Because chess is a game, chess can be played over and over. There’s no problem with starting over. 
On the other hand, if you treat marriage as a game like chess, and you think you are losing or not in a good position etc and just gave up on it, then that’s how marriages can fall apart. 

When you treat marriage as a game, you think you can just try again. But marriage is a commitment. Till death do us apart. 

There’s little similarity between marriage and games. 

You still haven’t really addressed what I said. 

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#64
Wazir20 wrote:

@Magnetta in marriage we don't clean the mess always bcoz sometimes our partner enjoy that or sometimes our partner clean that bcoz of love :D

It's @Magnetta123. Okay wait what? Can you just give me one example here cuz I am not really following

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#65
Wazir20 wrote:

ya chess can be played over and over but with no same moves always... right so in marriage also u can enjoy different moves with same partner... not a big deal... if a person is smart and romantic, he/she can plays well wtever it is a game or it is a role in life or it is a relation...

You are missing one big thing here. There are responsibilities in marriage and that is a very big part of it you know

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#66
Magnetta123 wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

@Magnetta in marriage we don't clean the mess always bcoz sometimes our partner enjoy that or sometimes our partner clean that bcoz of love :D

It's @Magnetta123. Okay wait what? Can you just give me one example here cuz I am not really following

He’s tip toeing around the subject. 
He’s answers aren’t adequately answering or explaining. 

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#67
Magnetta123 wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

ya chess can be played over and over but with no same moves always... right so in marriage also u can enjoy different moves with same partner... not a big deal... if a person is smart and romantic, he/she can plays well wtever it is a game or it is a role in life or it is a relation...

You are missing one big thing here. There are responsibilities in marriage and that is a very big part of it you know

That’s what I’ve been saying to the guy. 

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#68

I know. I am not quite understanding what she is trying to say

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#69
ChessSensasian wrote:
Magnetta123 wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

ya chess can be played over and over but with no same moves always... right so in marriage also u can enjoy different moves with same partner... not a big deal... if a person is smart and romantic, he/she can plays well wtever it is a game or it is a role in life or it is a relation...

You are missing one big thing here. There are responsibilities in marriage and that is a very big part of it you know

That’s what I’ve been saying to the guy. 

Girl*

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#70
Magnetta123 wrote:
ChessSensasian wrote:
Magnetta123 wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

ya chess can be played over and over but with no same moves always... right so in marriage also u can enjoy different moves with same partner... not a big deal... if a person is smart and romantic, he/she can plays well wtever it is a game or it is a role in life or it is a relation...

You are missing one big thing here. There are responsibilities in marriage and that is a very big part of it you know

That’s what I’ve been saying to the guy. 

Girl*

Oops 😅

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#71

Ah and one more thing, in marriage, one illegal move means checkmate. It isn't a game. It's real life. You never know whats going to happen next. The only similarity chess and marriage have, that the checkmate always hurts....

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#72

Oof...

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#73

There’s more trust in marriage too.  
Loss of trust could mean the end of it...in chess, you rely on yourself. You don’t normally have someone playing with you or helping you. 

Marriage is a union of two people. It requires trust, commitment, love, patience, and forgiveness. 

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#74

Okay I am really not following here. Moves will of course be different and the best example making love with different moves? Okay, you are just really in love.

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#75
Wazir20 wrote:

@Magnetta oh u accepted that checkmate always hurts... good at least u found one comman thing :D

Common*. And it is @Magnetta123

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#76
Wazir20 wrote:

@Magnetta oh u accepted that checkmate always hurts... good at least u found one comman thing :D

But she found it. 
And you haven’t really said any similarities. You mainly just said they are similar...

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#77
ChessSensasian wrote:
Wazir20 wrote:

@Magnetta oh u accepted that checkmate always hurts... good at least u found one comman thing :D

But she found it. 
And you haven’t really said any similarities. You mainly just said they are similar...

Yeah

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#78
sjsharks7 wrote:

And my worst nightmare : this topic stuck

This topic is as stuck as an elephant in quicksand. 

ChessSensasian
ChessSensasian
May 7, 2020
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#79
Wazir20 wrote:

@ChessSensasian chess also requires trust and patience and commitment for fair play (no cheating)

Yes. But you aren’t sharing it with a spouse. 

Marriage is 1 and 1. 
Chess is 1v1. 

Magnetta123
Magnetta123
Closed: Inactive
May 7, 2020
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#80
ChessSensasian wrote:
sjsharks7 wrote:

And my worst nightmare : this topic stuck

This topic is as stuck as an elephant in quicksand. 

Nah the elephant will come out dont worry