Guys I'm so cooked rn

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My gf has very strict parents and they just found out about us. Someone texted them telling them she had a relationship, I don't know who but I have some guesses. She's managed to do some damage control so that they don't have my identity, and I've gone through all our shared Google docs (I'm blocked on her phone bc before we got together I said things her parents don't approve of in the group chat) and removed anything compromising. I'm scared her parents might hurt me or find my parents & tell them. For reference we are both in the 8th grade. Please give genuine advice, I need to do damage control on this situation. I suspect it was a teacher that ratted us out but idk.

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( 。゚Д゚。)

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you must be really desperate if you're asking otf for advice

hmmm

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RagingRook1747 wrote:

you must be really desperate if you're asking otf for advice

I am bro I'd use quora or reddit but I'm on my school computer

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you know each other in real life? or met at chess?

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#1 8th us too young bro

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Is*

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Uh, how about you relax and stop overreacting. Explain what happened, like spronky said, and help them understand how you’re feeling. If her parents don’t allow her to date, then you have to accept it and move on.
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Sad_Name wrote:

you know each other in real life? or met at chess?

We know each other irl, we were friends before dating

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#10 good idea but no

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strangerwabigirononhiship napisał:
Sad_Name wrote:

you know each other in real life? or met at chess?

We know each other irl, we were friends before dating

so don't worry, you can still be here if you love her. try explain it to your parents. they will understand you. don't worry.

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BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
Uh, how about you relax and stop overreacting. Explain what happened, like spronky said, and help them understand how you’re feeling. If her parents don’t allow her to date, then you have to accept it and move on.

Dude I'm not overreacting. She's honest to God the first taste of love I've had and I can't let go of her that easily.

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if she's in real life you're gonna be okay, you;re not gonna lose her

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strangerwabigirononhiship napisał:
Sad_Name wrote:

you know each other in real life? or met at chess?

We know each other irl, we were friends before dating

so don't worry, you can still be here if you love her. try explain it to your parents. they will understand you. don't worry.

Ty, my parents don't know yet rn & I think the mole doesn't know its me. I'll try to tell them but idk how they'll react.

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Tell to ur parents and then to her parents and convince them

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Ok, I understand how you’re feeling, perhaps. That being said, your only chance of dating her and not getting in any trouble is letting your parents know. If they figure out you’ve been sneaking around without them knowing, they’ll take you less seriously, and will be more quick to punishments, and will likely not allow you to see her anymore.
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They won't 'hurt' you , they just don't agree with their daughter being in a relationship at such an age . If you're confident that you can talk to them and work something out , then do or try later when things have changed that is if you're serious about her .

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Deaconsz wrote:

They won't 'hurt' you , they just don't agree with their daughter being in a relationship at such an age . If you're confident that you can talk to them and work something out , then do or try later when things have changed that is if you're serious about her .

She said they were polishing their weapons

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They’re not “polishing their weapons”. Relax.
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#21 Probably to intimidate you but they won't physically assault you .