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I wanna be more LIKE her.

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Besides, its not just prettiness or femininity, she's smart and funny and artistic too. She knows I'm jealous. And she's still my friend. And I'm still her friend.

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Ay i would say if your not sure dont do it yet wait until you 100% know you want too

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NoraIsJstBetter wrote:

Its fine and nomal to like your friends not to be like her... Find your own personality to be frank you sound creepy. Its not nomal to like idk

....what

A ton of people are jealous of their friends? How do I sound creepy? What's wrong with wanting to be more like someone? If you look up to them i mean

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And wait.. why should I care wth you think if SHE knows and SHE'S fine with it?

This isn't even what this thread is supposed to be about-

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maxkeplerisme wrote:

Ay i would say if your not sure dont do it yet wait until you 100% know you want too

What? Surgery? Or coming out to her?

Cause I got 5 years to think about surgery.

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Coming out to her

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When you spend time with someone, they will change you. There is even a quote about it “I am a part of everything I have met” basically connections will change you. I changed when I met new friends, it’s just our nature to adapt
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NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:

Its fine and nomal to like your friends not to be like her... Find your own personality to be frank you sound creepy. Its not nomal to like idk

....what

A ton of people are jealous of their friends? How do I sound creepy? What's wrong with wanting to be more like someone? If you look up to them i mean

Yeah no. Its not nomal to be jelous thats toxic and on you. You sound creepy beacuse your always like "shes so petty" or " i want to be like her".

....I can see why you would think the first one sounds a bit creepy, but...

I mean like... I think I used a wrong term while saying 'jealous'. It's more like I look up to her.

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NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:

And wait.. why should I care wth you think if SHE knows and SHE'S fine with it?

This isn't even what this thread is supposed to be about-

thats my adivce! And if you dont get mad or say you dont care when you made a therd

...This wasn't about jealousy tho- it was about trying to come out to my friend.

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NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:

Its fine and nomal to like your friends not to be like her... Find your own personality to be frank you sound creepy. Its not nomal to like idk

....what

A ton of people are jealous of their friends? How do I sound creepy? What's wrong with wanting to be more like someone? If you look up to them i mean

Yeah no. Its not nomal to be jelous thats toxic and on you. You sound creepy beacuse your always like "shes so petty" or " i want to be like her".

....I can see why you would think the first one sounds a bit creepy, but...

I mean like... I think I used a wrong term while saying 'jealous'. It's more like I look up to her.

Surree dont change it now. You already got your msg arouss

...

Why do you think I'm a creep for being 'jealous' when she knows and she dosen't think so.

We are friends are we will stay that way.

We're not toxic at all toward each other.

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Nora. It’s normal to be jealous of someone, it’s not creepy to jealous of someone for their looks or wanting to be like them
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Yao that it exactly true

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Nora, when she says she’s jealous, she means that she wants to be like her friend. Wanting to be more like someone isn’t creepy.

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I am 100% sure I want to come out to her btw.

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Wanting to BE someone is, like wanting their money or partner or smth like that, but simply wanting to be more like someone isnt

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RealTactics960 wrote:

Nora, when she says she’s jealous, she means that she wants to be like her friend. Wanting to be more like someone isn’t creepy.

The biggest thing I'm jealous of isn't even that she's a girl.

I'm jealous that she's better at art than I am, and she can always teach me anyways.

(Being a girl is a very close second tho, obvi ><)

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She doesn’t want to be the exact same person, if you hang out with people and you start acting like them…are you a creep? No, of course not
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How is it toxic🥀

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NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:
YattaThePinata wrote:
NoraIsJstBetter wrote:

Its fine and nomal to like your friends not to be like her... Find your own personality to be frank you sound creepy. Its not nomal to like idk

....what

A ton of people are jealous of their friends? How do I sound creepy? What's wrong with wanting to be more like someone? If you look up to them i mean

Yeah no. Its not nomal to be jelous thats toxic and on you. You sound creepy beacuse your always like "shes so petty" or " i want to be like her".

....I can see why you would think the first one sounds a bit creepy, but...

I mean like... I think I used a wrong term while saying 'jealous'. It's more like I look up to her.

Surree dont change it now. You already got your msg arouss

...

Why do you think I'm a creep for being 'jealous' when she knows and she dosen't think so.

We are friends are we will stay that way.

We're not toxic at all toward each other.

Did i ask about what she thinks. And im saying that your mindset and the way you think is toxic

No, it's really not. I want to be more like her BECAUSE I like her.

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