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My girlfriend just broke up with me! What do I do???
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Jan 9, 2014
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if you are "really" too young to drink...and your girlfriend left you....my advice is relax...is not the end of the world...she is not the only fish n the ocean darling lol....will not be the last one either.....enjoy being single, stay in school, travel and eat well ;)
bongcloudftw wrote:
Lol macer you troll
? Yes, I am a troll, but what does that have to do with this thread?
olichris wrote:
Well little firehusky, may as well play a few games to make it look more realistic, even the silly girls who post saucy photos to get the men to drool know that !
Wait... r u talking about my girlfriend? Is that what she's doing right now??
What's really funny is that there a millions of men out there that wish their wife would pack up her shit and leave without a word. Not me of course but I can imagine many do.
denner90 wrote:
What's really funny is that there a millions of men out there that wish their wife would pack up her shit and leave without a word. Not me of course but I can imagine many do.
Of course not YOUUUU! Lol
firehusky wrote:
why does everyone like quoting bad words
Because that's one way to prove that you're a grown up. Kids aren't allowed to say bad words, so if you're quoting bad words then you must be a grown up!
firehusky wrote:
macer75 wrote:
firehusky wrote:
why does everyone like quoting bad words
Because that's one way to prove that you're a grown up. Kids aren't allowed to say bad words, so if you're quoting bad words then you must be a grown up!
once my teacher said cr*p and she told me it was a teacher word and only teachers could say it, but I don't think you are a teacher
Which is why I never said that word.
And why don't u think that I'm a teacher?
90007000 wrote:
Crap is a commonly said word
it is.....but is vulgar
Ok guys, we're getting sidetracked here. Let's get back to the topic of this thread. I've already received plenty of advice about what to do, and I think that's enough for now. But one thing I don't understand is: why in the world would by girlfriend break up with me? Does anyone care to take a guess?
firehusky wrote:
macer75 wrote:
Ok guys, we're getting sidetracked here. Let's get back to the topic of this thread. I've already received plenty of advice about what to do, and I think that's enough for now. But one thing I don't understand is: why in the world would by girlfriend break up with me? Does anyone care to take a guess?
mrs. bulford told me that she dumped her boyfriend because when he was eating a piece of steak he burped
Interesting... but why would she tell u that?
And I know that's definitely not why my girlfriend dumped me - I don't even eat steak!
olichris wrote:
Ok Macer as the darts is not on yet I shall shower you with my soft caring side and advise you on your dilemna.
Now this is from real personal experience, a lady dumped me many years ago and it was inevitable due to circumstances that I would see her again.
As crying wailing and begging had not worked with the previous 11 women I asked a friend of mine for advice and he simply said "when you see her again act as if nothing has happened"
Well when I saw her again I did just that, was very friendly cordial and pleasant, so much so that she actually said " you do realise I finished with you don't you ?"
That actually made me feel a lot better and although we did not get back together we remained friends and she did say that she had doubted her decision after I seemingly took it so well.
She was apparently impressed with my apparent confidence, nonchalance and the fact that I was maybe not as easily "getbackable" as she thought.
There is of course no guarantee that this will get her back but in my view it is your best shot and will help you feel better.
Remember dear Macer this is called the "act as if" technique.
And just to make the point clearer you have just read a live example !
Thanks... I'll remember that next time I see her... which is probably NEVER!
Seriously people ... not me. My wife is pretty & cool and no she's not on chess.com. She hates chess. This is my escape land.
But Macer- this was not a spur of the moment decision. She has undoubtedly been contemplating this for some time now, you were just not in tune with her...thoughts (I loathe to use the word feelings in this instance)
I found out many years later my gf dumped me because our relationship was too intense. She was younger than me and just wanted to have fun, date other people ect. I look back now and would give my own daughters the same advice. Don't get tied down too early, you really don't even know who you are yet and I supect she is more in tune with that than you are. She's not a bad person, you just may be too different. Men tend to be blinded by all the sex where women can see to the foundation of the relationship even if only sub-consciously.
You sound like a nice dude so it's her loss. Hang in there, my friend. 👊
firehusky wrote:
denner90 wrote:
Seriously people ... not me. My wife is pretty & cool and no she's not on chess.com. She hates chess. This is my escape land.
But Macer- this was not a spur of the moment decision. She has undoubtedly been contemplating this for some time now, you were just not in tune with her...thoughts (I loathe to use the word feelings in this instance)
I found out many years later my gf dumped me because our relationship was too intense. She was younger than me and just wanted to have fun, date other people ect. I look back now and would give my own daughters the same advice. Don't get tied down too early, you really don't even know who you are yet and I supect she is more in tune with that than you are. She's not a bad person, you just may be too different. Men tend to be blinded by all the sex where women can see to the foundation of the relationship even if only sub-consciously.
this is getting really weird now and I think I should untrack because my mommy said that I shouldn't learn bad words
grow up.
macer75 wrote:
So this morning we were hanging out at my place, and it was getting pretty boring, so I told her I had an appointment, and left to hang out with some friends. When I came back, she had already left, and she left a note saying that she was "fed up" with me.
I have no idea why she's suddenly breaking up with me, because I felt like our relationship was actually starting to get on the right track. And I don't know what to do now. I really want to get my mind off her, but unfortunately I can't drink legally. Please help me guys - what should I do??
Study the Queen's Gambit Declined. You must know the adversary in order to conquer her.
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What does that have to do with this thread?