My girlfriend just broke up with me! What do I do???

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CP6033
Thunder_Penguin wrote:

this is really weird for a chess site

i second this, why do we want to listen to you? 

Xieff

There has to be some way to contact her, especially if it was an expensive phone she took. Use a friend's phone. If you are not willing to contact her, then you don't want her back enough. 

VULPES_VULPES
macer75 wrote:

How could you say something like that? You're mocking my misery!

It's called a "pseudonym", and many people use it. 

tonightatsix
macer75 wrote:

The problem is, the thing I did to offend her was trolling on the forums:

http://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/what-has-macer75-been-doing-on-the-forums

How can you be with someone who finds what you love to do offensive?  It doesn't sound like you guys are compatible...Looks like you need to find someone more like you so that you can get along.

Xieff

Maybe you are overrated. Women are just as worthy as men. Just as useful. If you do not see this they are are mentally retarded. You just aren't a nice guy. That is your problem. End of story. 

macer75
tubebender wrote:
Xieff wrote:

Maybe you are overrated. Women are just as worthy as men. Just as useful. If you do not see this they are are mentally retarded. You just aren't a nice guy. That is your problem. End of story. 

True, many if not most might just agree with your opinion. Still, I`m a good guy and never ever tried to lead anyone on; I`m more careful of the "sensitive" ones who try to make more of a romantic situation than what it is. Now that I`m older, 66, there is less opportunity for me yet the older ones I score with know the deal and don`t get their hopes up. Aren`t you a little young to offer wisdom on this subject? I mean, maybe you are lucky in love, but I`ve been around the block a bit more than you have. I think Macer 75 should follow my advice more than yours. Let`s hear some women`s thoughts on this.

Now that you mention it... it's interesting how I haven't seen any women posting in this thread. Ok, maybe some of the people who posted were women, we just don't know, but nobody said anything from a woman's point of view.

Xieff

How could you say you are a good guy if you are partially racist against women? Women are equal to men. I don't understand why you are so hateful of them. Are they not amazing? You grew up in the wrong home or something. Are you absolutely and utterly horrid looking/smelling? Or what? Cuz apparently you haven't experienced true romance, but sex only. Well duh you aren't going to agree with love if you haven't ever had it. 

tonightatsix
Xieff wrote:

Well duh you aren't going to agree with love if you haven't ever had it. 

That is deep. 

tonightatsix

So I've been commenting... :) ?? I said perhaps Macer should find someone who is more like him. 

Hello, guys. :)

macer75
tonightatsix wrote:

So I've been commenting... :) ?? I said perhaps Macer should find someone who is more like him. 

Hello, guys. :)

Hmmm... someone more like me... that sounds like a good idea. Is there anyone specifically that you would recommend?

tonightatsix

LOL.  Unfortunately, I don't know anyone that you would know) But you are young, smart and you seem good-natured (I have never read anything mean spirited coming from you), so I am sure you will find someone...soon :)

macer75
tonightatsix wrote:

LOL.  Unfortunately, I don't know anyone that you would know) But you are young, smart and you seem good-natured (I have never read anything mean spirited coming from you), so I am sure you will find someone...soon :)

Wow... thanks! I'm sure there are people who would disagree with the "smart" and "good natured" part (especially the "smart" part). Tongue Out

tonightatsix

You're welcome :) I think that a lot of times, what people say reflect themselves, so I would not give credence to people who say that you are not smart or not good-natured.  Good luck with everything! :)   

Xieff

Macer go for Soorat. You have common interests and you are both young. She is like 21. So go for it man. Just keep working out as well. ;)

winerkleiner

What could they do over the internet?  Wink at each other?

macer75
Xieff wrote:

Macer go for Soorat. You have common interests and you are both young. She is like 21. So go for it man. Just keep working out as well. ;)

Nah, I don't want to creep her out and make her leave again.

DrStephenAtbash

Stop talking about chess and maybe your girlfriend won't think you are such a dork.

DrStephenAtbash

Seriously though...Women want what they can't have.  That is the first and foremost thing you have to understand or else you are going to be led around in life.

macer75

Thanks Itude! However, it appears that I'm still blocked...

winerkleiner

Forgive and forget!