someone ask Why 99,9% refuse rematch

At this simple question 99,9% said , sorry we are very busy, lol .

Just read the result of the behavioral studies.

It's the same each time.

When a person is not observed, this person forgets all notions of courtesy and fair play and even humanity.

Only the points that this player can win or lose count.

In the case of chess it's worse because these points are considered by this same player as points of intelligence (which is perfectly stupid).

So the answer is simple and effusive at the same time. It's the cowardice. and this concerns more than 97% of humanity.

You understand now why there are so few heroes. It is appalling but it is human nature.

Bro. I refuse rematch because I know that when I lose and someone wants a rematch it's normally  because  they want to get a lot of points off of you or think that you're  an easy target. If I win and someone  wants a rematch I'll  normally  accept, unless I've  beaten them 4 or 5 times in a row. In my opinion, only the person who lost the game should submit  a rematch.

I agree that some people want to build points of simeine they destroy...those people shouldnt get mad when they don't get a rematch. However I always sumbit a rematch, its courtesy. if a game is close and ine mustake cost the game, or an excellemt move at the end wins the game a remaych should be mandatory. jist had a game where we were in a stand still until I mive a paen up which opened his queen up to get in. the coward doesn't rematch, because clearly he's scared...so I dont get my get back even though I was ranked higher by 40 pts.