Why is polygamy taboo-ed?

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Please explain? Is it consider a moral wrong?

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Oh! Please Claire if you don't find anything moral wrong to raise your children while you f*ck ten at the same time, then it's ok.

When you will say to your husband : " Honey are you going to pick kids from school? "

" Sorry dear I f*ck Natasa right now, I can't "

What a progressive society!

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I thought marriages don't have sex in it.

Avatar of Bishop_g5

You are wrong. Sometimes the best sex arise through love!

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why be selfish then and not share the love :)

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There are many ways to share love, you don't need to make sex with everyone to transfer this feeling.

Sex is a selfish desire! Giving love through sex it's about making your mate feeling very special for you. What's the point if you share this feeling with everyone? What's so special about?

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Polygamy isn't just about sex you know.

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Really? What is about? What a polygamy realetionship can give to you besides sex, that a normal realetionship can't?

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Bishop_g5 wrote:

Really? What is about? What a polygamy realetionship can give to you besides sex, that a normal realetionship can't?

More like, what can't a polygamous relationship give you, that a normal relationship can?

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You answered with a question for two reasons: 1) Women's don't like questions 2) You are not feeling sure for your statement: " Polygamy isn't just about sex you know."

Claire listen to me...I am not here to prove anything against you. I am trying to type logically for whatever understand in that you are asking but you don't help with your stand.

I guess you raised up through a family environment with all the typical stuff and things around. Do you believe that a man or a woman can support this while they have a parallel polygamous relationship?

Can a wife be a mother? Can a husband be a father?

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Polygamy is not about sex, it's about power deferred entirely to the male. It's much different than an open marriage where affairs are tolerated by both sides. In polygamy the male does not tolerate affairs the female would have with another male. It is entirely about male power and female servitude.

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I am sorry tryst , I didn't knew that. I thought polygamy was referring to both sides like an open marriage you described.

I have hear that males from their nature are more polygamy than female but I didn't knew that was so absolut as a definition between a relationship man and woman.

By the way...Sex is about power so it has a correlation with polygamy. More sex...more power!

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Polygamy has always been about male dominance. Usually springing from an unequal society and used to keep it that way. In the U.S., polygamists marry very young girls and brainwash them and all their female offspring into believing their sole role to be serving the male.

It's too bad you think sex is about power, Bishop. No good can come of that, surely.

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I agree trysts. This is the reason why I am trying to explain Claire that Polygamy or any kind of an open marriage can't serve life or society. Sex is a selfish desire but when comes through love then it's a blessing for both man and woman.

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@Bishop: Sex brought about through mutual desire, without the caveat of love, is certainly fine for both parties. Sex used for bartering purposes is quite common, as well. Sex used for power though, manifests itself in some very dispicable ways, from deception and manipulation all the way to rape.

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clockblockerz wrote:

wow! apart from psycho men, and insecure women. there are actually people who find it works for them. you should not try to impose you culturally inherited puritan or personal sexual preference as moral standards for all humans, whether mono or polygamous. 

You're a first class loser

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Trysts@ Mutual desire that depends on what? To satisfy what and why? How can you name those instincts besides than selfishness and individually?

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Bishop_g5 wrote:

Mutual desire that depends on what? To satisfy what and why? How can you name those instincts besides than selfishness and individually?

You can simply be mutually attracted to each other without being in love with each other.

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Yes but what is the purpose of your sex? To satisfy what and why?

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A mutual desire.

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