Aborting Games Message

Hey you know what Chess.com? I don't need your guilt trip every time I abort a game. When my opponent aborts a game I have a new game within 3 seconds, so no it isn't frustrating for my opponent. You'll suspend my account if I abort too many games? Good thing I only abort them here and there...maybe you should shut up about it. I pay for your friggin membership and if I need to abort a game I'll abort a game...for any reason. I've already seen the message and I know you'll suspend my account if I abort too many games so can I turn off the message. I  dare say it would be like shackles breaking and falling off of my arms and legs and me being able to run free in a field of wildflowers with young wood nymphs that are all single and looking for a nerdy boyfriend who plays chess poorly if only I knew I would never, ever have to see the ?! message verbally flogging me ever again. Please oh Lord redeem me and set me free! Hallelujah! 

And if you abort too much the Abort button disappears, right?