And that's because you escalate and de-escalate according to your own reactions, which are prompted by whatever unrelated angst you happen to be exeriencing at the time. You do that to everyone. When they challenge your inaccurate and often downright silly statements, you start off slowly and goad them into a reaction. Then, you have what you hope is going to be a legitimate reason for escalation. You've been doing it as long as I can remember, which is a long time. It's pretty silly to imagine that no-one has noticed or that I never commented on it. A troll often cannot help themselves and you stalk people, so how can they avoid you? There is definitely enough in this post of yours to get you banned from here, if those responsible here were actually competent and fair, because mirroring others' behaviour can only be their behaviour AS YOU REPRESENT IT, which is usually deliberately incorrectly. Enough said.
Problems with your narrative:
- I don't "start off slowly", I am direct and genuine from the get-go, but I do mirror what's being put forth towards me or others. Pretty darn hard to argue that I am sneakily pouncing or something.
- My perceptions must be fairly decent, given that for a decade now you've been driving your escalated "car" right off the cliff and been muted (many times), yet somehow, I'm always sitting at the top looking down having stopped mine in time. It's very Wile E. Coyote in nature.
- "Can't help myself" better applies to you here, as I just described.
- Between us you are the only one who has admitted, in writing no less, that you stalked someone (Elroch). I'm very sorry for you and some of the other angsty posters that find it unfair that I keep linked snippets of your behavior to remind you of later, but that is not stalking, not in any way. It's just holding you accountable for what you have freely said in "public". Here's the thing...if you didn't make such statements, I would have nothing to set aside.
I freely invite you or anyone else to try the same thing for me. You'll find it's a bit more difficult from your end due to the differences in how we express ourselves, but the method is easy, and chess.com provides the link button in the TinyMCE editor for this exact purpose, so I think you'd have a hard time selling the idea that I can't use it.
- Your assertion about my post warranting a ban is flat out ridiculous. Calling the mods incompetent for not banning me does not help your case. Rather the opposite.
- "usually deliberately incorrectly. Enough said."...indeed. I woulld come up with some pun about Tripoli to go with your triple "ly" here, but I suspect you are not in the mood for puns.
Dio is the sort of person I think who feeds off of others turmoil. He's kind of a blood sucking vampire, and that's not to put him down it's my honest assessment of him, he actually feeds off of being contentious and arrogant toward people. It's why he's been locked in debate with now 4 people in this thread, it's why he keeps a long list of things people have said just to try and humiliate them (unsuccessfully but even so). I imagine he probably gets glee at the thought of having forum members banned or the thread censored. Part of it's just a need for power. At some point in his life he probably felt powerless / humiliated at the hands of the group... then back when he was a manager people had to kiss up to him, and for the first time in his life women were forced to submit to him... On another level, he's probably desperate to recover his lost innocence, which he can never regain, so he actually has to suck that life out of others. etc.. But the best you can do with a person like that is actually just to avoid them.
When you build your narrative on literally a dozen assumptions, you know it's not accurate. In fact even if each wild guess here had 50/50 odds, your odds of this narrative being right would be less than 1 in 4000.
I will continue to mirror every behavior you display back to you, so if you are feeling like you want to avoid me and find me malicious and contentious, welcome to some knowledge of self. I mean let's not pretend you yourself think you are a bed of roses here on the forums in the first place...but you don't seem to grasp that I am matching your venom in a measured manner, kind for kind.
Optimissed has never grokked that I escalate and de-escalate according to his behavior either. It's quite the blind spot. He'll say "you were finally being nice for a little while, and then you started up again" completely oblivious to his actions.
This is a very simple technique that even tantrum-prone toddlers eventually respond to when they finally recognize their own behavior. Not you, though.
Why do you choose a diseased rat as your avatar, anyway? I wouldn't want to make any assumptions. Avoiding me is also acceptable, probably preferable.