Quitting live

The title says it all. I'm now quitting live chess because my connection always makes me lose or have to refresh the page every 10 seconds to check if my opponent's made a move yet. In bullet I've lose 100+ points by outplaying most opponents and initially being up in time but then losing those games on time because of my blasted connection. My internet is pretty fast but chess.com seems to think otherwise. As mentioned before, playing long games is also out since I have to refresh constantly.