The most important thing we must know is chess is a game to be enjoyed, even though we train methodically.
Why do we play chess?
"Many times I have seen fathers (never mothers) who pressurize their children into training and who also scream at them when they are not interested." -Jesper Hall
True enough, children who trained in this strategy is doomed in the long run. Chess is a game, but it is not just a game; it needs passion, our love at the game to make us more motivated at the training.