This is something I've seen on several other sites, and I thought it could be useful in tournaments as well as in normal play: A game is set to X days/game, instead of X days/move. I think the normal time is 30 days/game, but some sites can be set as high as 60 days or as low as 14 days.
[ERIK response: we will probably not do this too soon. it would be a major programming effort for probably a minor change. what we will probably do instead is give more options around finding partners who have more similar "Avg. Time per Move" stats.]
If you have suggestions on how we can improve the site, please list them here! i will then respond to as many as possible with somethign like this right in the post:
[ERIK says: this is my response!]