Ah erik, I didn't mean to come off as intolerant. And I'm not going anywhere, I have a few fun thread ideas I plan on getting to later today.
I agree that it is the members that make it up.
It is a forum, yes. And you're right, you can't make everyone happy.
Nevermind. I was trying to encourage this person to stay. Frustrated to lose a friend. Forget I said anything. I'm deleting my comments and my blog on this issue.
I've seen some people post about the quality of the Chess.com forums recently, so I thought I'd chime in.
Rael made an interesting post:
"You know, I'm seeing this more and more. If Chess.com can't retain guys like Quix and King_William then we're in trouble. These forums are turning into real gibberish for a few reasons -
A lot of the quality posters are leaving these main forums for the mature tidiness of groups (see: Qtsii, batgirl and the Chess history group. It should be the other way around - kids in the kiddie pool group who can engage in meaningless point hunting) or simply realizing that it is not worthwhile to even bother trying to "save" these forums with quality counter-posts than end up getting drowned in garble anyways. So the older, cool, mature demographic shrugs their shoulders and is content to play chess and just ignore this aspect of chess.com. This is a real issue. Chess.com cannot be the greatest chess site on the internet with a forum that alienates adult members (read: people with actual money who buy memberships) and lets it's forums collapse into a degenerate mush of endlessly recurring topics, grotesque spelling (yes, I know this is an international website, it still strikes the eye as garrish) and posts like "lol" or "i agree".
I could make a list of cool people who've told me they just don't post at all anymore because of this, and they also happen to be some of the cooler members this site has.
...This dusty town is full of lawless cutthroats and bandits, so many that the good people of the town are locking their doors, putting closed signs in their shop windows, or just plain up and leavin'.
...It looks like we may have to set aside our old feud and fight the real trolls around here."
My thoughts on it? This is a FORUM. It's basically a huge platform for people to talk about lots of different topics. There are thousands of virtual conversations happening right here in the forums. Some are amazingly stimulating. Some are rediculously dumb. But they are all by community members and participants who are viewing them at will. Nobody is forcing anyone to read anything. Personally, I read probably 5% of the forums topics on here and I know which ones to avoid by poster or topic.
So while I agree that it can be frustrating to have some people saying stupid things and posting nonsense, it is the responsibility of the reader as well to find what interests them and then also deal with the reality of the situation - that there are tens of thousands of active people on this site who range widely in age, culture, beliefs, social behaviors, etc. Deal with it :)
I tell you - as the owners of Chess.com we are stuck in a pickle. On the one hand we have people decrying "censorship!! censorship!!" for some things. Then on the other hand we have people saying "save us from this or that" and we can't do both. So what happens is that people who are easily offended on either end end up leaving - either because of censorship, or because of a personal attack, or because of the nonsense, or because of who knows what. But honestly I just can't help them. I can't make everyone happy. So I have built these tools so that most people can come have a good time. If it bothers it and you want it changes, just know that a change will end up bothering someone else who liked it just the way it was. Truly a difficult dilemna.
Sure - I'd love to see peole more focused on game analysis and more thoughtful posts. But I can't enforce that. But you can - if you end up creating your own group :) You can have your own private forums where you set the rules. In the end, if you can't stand the main forums, then maybe Group forums are for you. If that doesn't help you, then maybe you need to learn a little bit of tolerance :D