enjoyment of the grand patzer
Im gonna keep this short just like me. Chess is a competitive game but that doesn't mean you have to get carried away. I used to play 10 hours a day and hated to lose, but as soon as I got a life and realized that I would never be with the top guys I tried to enjoy the game more and make friends. The game is fun and it shouldn't make you mad when you play. Noone likes losing but it is a part of the game. Just enjoy it and have fun and don't take it too seriously and make some friends. Chess is life(Fischer): it is what you make it. Have a good and fun day.