SADNESS IS NOT A SOLUTION FOR ANYTHING

Whenever you loose in a game fail in a exam or something happens bad you become sad and start crying. Crying is not a solution for anything. I will tell you another story of the Buddha. The story goes like this- Once there was a woman her child had died. She was crying and running along the streets . She was shouting and telling to saw her child a kind man told her about Buddha. She went to Buddha and told her about her problem. Buddha told her to bring a handful of grains. She became very happy. Buddha again started speaking. He told" Oh lady you must bring a handful of grains from a place where no one has died" , she went to every house everywhere one or the other had died.

Can anyone tell me what Buddha try to tell. Every one have bad days. Even gods. Best example is the indian epic Ramayana. Where Ram a incarnation of lord Vishnu had to live in forests for 14 years. And Ravan a demon kidnapped Sita Ram's wife and told her to be his wife. But she didn't accept . At last Ram killed Ravan. They both went back to Ayodhya happily.

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