Intuitively Obvious to the Most Casual Observer

Hmmmmmmmm.....

Anyone else have the all to often occasion to be disconnected one or two moves from a win, always from a player that would lose substaintial points, and usually from a player from the former Soviet Block region.

I am just wondering[not being technically proficient] if there is a way to boot your opponent off at will?     Maybe?

Just like to put it out their to get an opinion???