Help Here

Geezz Im playing lousey, need help learning this game . Anybody out there , Maby those learning videos? . Pandolfini or whoever  . This thing kiks me bad and I cant seem to beat it . I know all the moves but it catches me every time it seems ..Need help bad to get over the stratigy thing Every move is suposed to count . But  where it counts is a mystery . Still trying to enjoy it . But just once id like to see the wining side . Play those find the next move things and figure it out sometimes but finding the best move first try is also difficult..Think the learning videos would help here .?? thanks anyone..Frank...out