shambles slowness on this website

This site is a bit of a shambles, constantly slowing me down for no reasons at all, shit moderators that cannot protect and deliberatly doing just enough to make you think that all flashing ads causing problems and if you pay to get rid of them then obviously everything becomes fine. All this bullshil linked on money and nothing else, i just wonder is it you bloody americans who created this nonsense ? I guess it's your 'lovely' idea to get money to get rid of ads. This is completly chicken f..uking soup !