Gifts of Kindness: William Lombardy
I was dejected as I walked into the skittles room. I had just lost a game; the person was rated 300 points higher, but somehow, I felt that I played better than he did. Lombardy saw me and offered to go over the game with me. Who could refuse such an offer? So, we sat down at one the wooden tables and Lombardy started going over the moves. After a couple of moves, I heard Lombardy say, “You know chess, but your opponent doesn’t.” That startled me. “But he won,” I responded. “I thought so,” Lombardy said, with a sad voice. His hands flew over the game, and then it stopped.
“Here, you should have castled Queen-side!” I remembered that position. I had spent a long time trying to figure out how to get the rook into the middle. Queen-side castling would do it – in one move, the move that I had been looking for and that eluded me. I told Lombardy that I tend to forget about Queen-side castling. “They don’t teach castling Queen-side to beginners,” was his comment -- and then he returned to analyzing the game. He stopped again at a critical position. “Here, you should have done this.” Again, it was a position that I recognized -- I knew what needed to be done, what I wanted to do, but I did not know how to do it. This happened a number of times. It was as if he could read my thoughts; he understood what I was trying to do and he showed me how to do it.
As he went over my moves, I heard him repeat, “You are only a beginner.” It was as if he felt my frustrations, my internal conflict of what I saw, what I understood, and my performance. It was as if he was trying to put his own frustration into perspective. Unspoken, he sent me a message: “You see, you understand, but you are a beginner. Learn, and you will be able to succeed.” It gave me hope. Thank you, Lombardy, for this great gift.
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