Whittling down the games

I've been really questioning my goals and directions and thinking how to improve. 

So I've decided to only take on a maximum of two games per week and to stop being a "greeter" for the moment. I think playing too much chess isn't a good thing and I need more time to study and to learn from my past games and from others.

I need to work out all the lines and the variations from one opening and learnit by heart. Playing chess lots just leaves me in the doldrums.

My long term goal were first 1300 and then 1350 , so time to focus on getting there. I think very long term 1500 would be nice.