ECONOMICS OF INNER WORLD
In economics, if you give something, you will have less. Like, if you have $20 and you give $10 to someone, you still can’t have $20 and certainly not $25. You will have only$10 left. This is the economics of the outer world.
The inner world is totally different. You give love and you still have the same love or even more love, because by giving, your love starts flowing. If suppose you don’t draw water from well the water will become dirty; it may become poisonous. And unused the spring will become blocked. If you draw water from well every day, more and more water will flow in the well….the more you draw the more you get.
However, people live in the external economics even in the inner life. The wife becomes angry if she finds her husband being friendly with another woman. The husband becomes aggressive if he finds his wife having a good time with any other guy, just enjoying and laughing. This is stupidity. He is still thinking in the terms of money- that if his wife has laughed with someone else she won’t be able to laugh with him anymore; so much laughter is lost. That makes him a loser, creating anger that leads to his devil behaviour from then onwards.
In fact, if the wife does not laugh with many people, does not enjoy friendship, is not loving many people, she won’t be able to love her husband either. She will forget how to love and her springs will dry.
That’s why you see couple looking so sad and bored with each other**; that is bound to happen after all they are going against the ‘natural inner law’ , you have more the more you give.
That’s how we have killed love in the world; we have killed everything valuable because our logic is stupid. By giving more everywhere, when couple comes together, they will be more alive and more loving with each other.
Jealousy kills love, possessiveness kills love. Be non-jealous if you want great love to happen; if you want your life to grow multi-dimensionally it needs freedom. Love is not a commodity; it is an inner energy which grows by sharing, which dies by not sharing.
** In India its common thing and that too at large scale. No offence against my western mates.