FUN is a SERIOUS learning tool

yes! you heard me right , FUN is a SERIOUS learning tool . to master chess as an adult you must study the game like a kid . avoid pressure , forget about the ratings, get excited , be enthusiastic , be motivated , be happy and  just focus on  learning and enjoy the game. 
Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein.  Mark 10:15    (Bible)  Chess is a game ,  study , study study , practice practice practice , Train smart , compete and HAVE FUN !!  The more you sweat in training the less you bleed in battle , so be happy to make all the mistakes in training , correct them , learn to avoid them and then proceed to battle hardened and solid .  see you at the top .