Responsive or Reactive Chess Player

Most chess players who have lost a lot of games is due to their reactive attitude towards the game they played.  Just like me.  Without looking the opponent purpose, automatically makes a move and realized my move was a mistake.

Too late my move was a blunder instead......

Most winners on the otherhand are RESPONSIVE...... They are patient and they process what the best move should be...

Lesson I learned is that when I over react I tend to lose.  Often times great chess players are meek and patient.  They don't belittle their opponent's move no matter what their ratings are..