This one thing is ruining your joy for chess.

When we seek improvement, it's easy to fall into the trap of setting high expectations for ourselves.

We strive for certain results, expecting our progress to follow a specific trajectory.

But what happens when reality doesn't meet these expectations? Disappointment, frustration, and a sense of failure can quickly take hold.

In chess, this phenomenon is common. Many enthusiasts find themselves overwhelmed by the pressure to perform, leading to burnout and a loss of passion for the game. But what if there was a different approach?

The Power of Letting Go

Renouncing expectations doesn't mean settling for mediocrity or abandoning our goals. Rather, it's about freeing ourselves from the constraints of perfectionism and embracing the inherent uncertainty of the journey.

When we let go of the need for specific outcomes, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and experiences. We become more adaptable, resilient, and open-minded, allowing us to approach challenges with a sense of curiosity and creativity.

Embracing Growth

Instead of fixating on results, let's shift our focus to growth.

Every game, every challenge, every setback is an opportunity to learn and improve.

By embracing growth as our new motto, we cultivate a mindset of resilience and determination. We become more willing to take risks, experiment with new strategies, and push ourselves beyond our comfort zones.

And as we continue to evolve and develop as players, we discover the true joy of chess: the endless potential for growth and self-discovery.

Renounce expectations and embrace growth.

Best,

Coach Diego