What is the point in chess? It is for warriors. They have only one woman – she is their queen. They must not have any other. Be cause they would loose any other woman, or a child, or a family. Yes, warriors can loose everything or they can win the battle and conquer the world, but there is always an enemy waiting.
If you are not a lonely warrior, better do not play chess.
If you have a family, do not play chess because you will start to think as you are an invincible king of the Universe and you will start to fight instead to care for people. You will start to think about next move, and next, and next.
Chess is only a game and that is great.