Play or go away!

              I'm not really the person who likes to complain but this really irratates me. I mean it's o.k. when some people check their games once a day but some people will make a move once every 3 or so days. Some people i've played will even lose on time on 1 move per 3 days. I know some people will say,"Then change your move time to 24 hours" but thats just too short for anyone then almost everyone would lose on time. I understand that most people are sometimes if not always too busy to move but I just want to say in anything but mean way "Either play or go Away!".

Please comment on this topic so I can see your opinion and how you feel about this matter.